Raise A Glass, Raise A Finger…r

1 year ago today, I saw a gynecology oncologist after 20 years of remission. For that birthday, I received a stage 4 endometrial carcinoma diagnosis and a surgery scheduled for the following month.

From that day till today, my world has been turned upside down, shaken, and then was told to pick up the pieces and find that new normal. It’s been filled with 5 surgeries, 9 rounds of chemo, and more tests, scans, and procedures than I can count.

It has also been amazing! I’ve met so many new friends that have become like family. I’ve reconnected with friends from high school and they are still the raddest chicks in the world. Some tears but a lot more laughs. I’ve learned so much about myself and what I’m capable of. I refuse to mourn my life. Life’s way too short to sit and watch it go by and I’ve fought way too hard to keep this life going.

I never thought I could handle anything like this, especially on my own. I’m pretty stoked about that.

For this years birthday, I took that chance to keep the appointment with my oncologist and believe it would bring me good luck. It was great news that will set me on yet a new road. I truly believe it’ll be a better road. Today has been great so far, even with a trip to the infusion room! Cancer invaded so many aspects of my life in the past year and a half, but I’m not going to let that that stop me from moving forward and learning how to navigate this new normal.

Raise a glass and a finger. Here’s to 42!! 🎉🎉🎉